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Kik messenger cheating is a common occurrence, but you should remember that if your spouse is a cheater, he or she may use any other social media for cheating as well.
Stay on mn and vent to us! Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You must still be in shock. I honestly can't believe he would write such crude things to someone. Tell him if he is to have a chance of coming back he has to be completely how stand open.
Most people here are very supportive when someone is in genuine need of help.
I'd tell him where to go hun. Or does she call him? I have no idea. I honestly don't know what to do.
I've been through this before. I'm sorry I read your post wrong regarding the one sided messages and Sophia. What is it about kik that makes it suitable for adultery? Thank you everyone. I just want it all to go away so we can go back to our lovely life. Can you go back to normal after that? I suggest taking photos of everything. Anyhow, I found he had the. We're talking now. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this, I know how you feel.
I'm really sorry. Best bring it up, be really strong about it and do not let him convince you that you're the one in the wrong I fell in to this trap too many times and it is completely soul destroying. So I told him not to lie and he said it was for. Sorry your going through this OP, it does seem like he's not being fully honest. Sending my support. Without proof, you'll begin to doubt yourself and ease back into the status quo. And I wouldn't want to waste any more of my life checking kik cheaters on him or wondering whether he's still doing it.
App can be deleted and reinstalled if you need to hide it. Kik cheaters feels like a different person.
I don't know what to do. How would that go down?
I'm not sure with Kik tbh. I've just asked him Why he had kik and he said he didn't know. I would say it could be nothing but in this case, it doesn't sound like it is. Or meet up with him to act on what he said?
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Do you think so? Look at his username and it it is really unique, google it just in case he's put it online and is looking to chat that way. He would have carried on lying if you hadn't called him on it. I need to snap out of that though.
I'm not being flippant. Having been through it, I wouldn't want to hear the minimising, excuses and lies. SM thing kik cheaters work so I told him not to lie and he denied it so I asked why there was such a filthy conversation with some girl on it. Help, I feel sick. I think I'm going to get his diary and see if the dates marry up with when he was away with work. I think you have to make him see what he stands to lose.
The annoying thing is I want to cry and talk it through with my husband but in this instance I can't. Do her messages get deleted? I heard on here about kik and how it was used by people having affairs so I looked at my husbands phone to see if he had it. Thanks everyone.
How is it different from, say, WhatsApp or normal messaging? Well I would take photos of everything as evidence and tell him to leave.
Do people use kik to cheat?
Sorry op in my experience it's married men who usually use it. And it will have been for pleasure - why else?! To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewerand support Mumsnet. I'd tell him you want the truth or he's out the door and if he doesn't make sense keep at him. Even if you are ultimately able to reconcile, asking him to give you space shows him how serious this is.
There was one thread from a person, called Sophia in April and May. All the conversation was kik cheaters sided and there was no response showing. Before I realised what it was for, is chat to potential kik cheaters on there and meet up with them. It was a fairly 'filth' sexual conversation, not suggesting that they'd had sex but a very sexual conversation nonetheless. I was not expecting him too, the only reason I looked is because he is being uncharacteristically nice as in reeeaallly nice, most of the time he is just normal nice.
There were maybe eight comments. If it were me I'd be seriously considering whether or not to continue in the relationship. I noticed the dates were all April and May and the very explicit messages. It all feels surreal, I kind of want to laugh because I just can't believe this is actually happening. Sadly I think it was him sending the messages, I couldn't see any responses from her, hence me not being sure how it works.
Once the trust is gone it'd be hard to get that back and I'd be worrying all the time that he was doing it again. So sorry that you've found the app and the messages. I think the danger is that he'll minimise and deny. Sorry, OP. He's most likely cheated OP. I've been doing online dating a while and married men always want to use KIK, it's a great al to single women to avoid a man.
I just feel disinclined to trust him as he lied when I initially confronted him. He will lie in the future if he thinks he can get away with it. Your heart will be in your throat for a while. I'd be confused why sometimes their messages didn't get through but that's because married men delete the app when they are with their spouses then they reinstall to start the kik cheaters again. I don't know what to do, I feel sick.
It's deceit however you look at it, just a matter of,you deciding if you can forgive him and trust him.
Is kik a cheating app?
He lied to you twice. Well, he's cheated hasn't he? I'm going with my gut I think, going to see how I feel. Not all KIK users are cheats looking for an affair or fling, I have it for chatting to online gaming friends and other messaging, it's not always for cheating. He has deleted the but I stupidly didn't take photos as I just felt ill when I read them so turned it off. With Kik you don't need a phone so it's easier for.
That was my experience anyway. Unless you want to negotiate an open relationship where you get your rocks off with other men? Look up her username also. He apologised and spent ages saying he'd never act on it, never has and never will. I'm sorry you're going through this. Kik cheaters think that sex messaging is a form of cheating even in the absence of physical contact. You could ask a relative or friend to set up a fake profile for you on there see if he takes the bait.
You'd be surprised how many people have their KIK username in their social media profile. I won't deal with any man using it. OP I'd be inclined to ask.