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In the BDSM community, a collaring ceremony has similar ificance to a wedding ceremony among vanilla people. It represents a formal declaration of commitment between two people — the dominant person generally collars the submissive one. However, modern BDSM couples sometimes choose to wear a collar to show their devotion to each other and their relationship.


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Receiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. For some, this time means a celebration of your relationship and the commitment that is about to happen. A formal collaring ceremony is what came about because of this need. There are no right or wrong ways to be collared. They can be formal or informal. For those of you who wish to plan a more formal celebration, there are things to consider.

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Seriously, you guys? A collaring ceremony is not an uncommon way of sanctifying commitment although it's not the only way, obviously ; clearly, the symbol works for a lot of people, and if no one is trying to force you to do it, it's not hurting you.

We prefer this term to polyamory, but sure, you can call us poly if you want to. And yes, I would find it "incredibly disgusting" if a woman was collaring a man.

All the feminist hairs on my body are standing on end! There's a lot of info to google if you were interested, or I'd be glad to answer any questions I've been polyamorous for yearsbut honestly I'm just glad and impressed that you commented with such an open mind. Polyamory and polygamy are actually not the same thing.

I mainly find the symbol of the collar offensive. We need more of this!! For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he bdsm collaring ceremony for he hath not another to help him up. In recognition of this, we now invite our spouses to speak. Yes, we said partners. Dominant: And I am promising you that I am committing myself to you and making you one of the highest priorities in my life, second only to my children and my marriage. Just wanted to say that, even as the publisher of Offbeat Bride, this post is totally not MY thing either, but I love that we can all appreciate it.

The Dominant may identify as a woman, man, or all of the above! First off I'd like to say wow, this post was amazin and we need moar! Insert the gauzy shots of couples smiling at each other, and the photos of folks holding hands. We're about to head into engagement photo season. But I did want to make one gentle correction: Polyamory was what was mentioned in the original post and your comment mentioned polygamy.

Wow, this is really awesome! If I don't get it I try to understand the best I can and you've helped a lot. That said, if you're looking for some inspiration, here's one collaring ceremony script to inspire you:.

What is a collaring ceremony?

There is also a much more equal gender distribution in that all genders are free to have partners. I fully support all kinds of consensual relationships.

Both polyandry and polygyny are forms of polygamy. And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

Thanks so much for sharing! Again, if two lie together, they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? I will [insert vows here] In return I ask that you [insert requests here] Do you accept my key? Clearly, collaring ceremonies are completely deeply nontraditional — they can be polyamorous and gender non-binary. There are no rules to follow, and every collaring ceremony will unique to the folks taking part.

Dominant: In binding ourselves to each other, we recognize that we are not merely making a commitment between two individuals. I love this shit.

While collaring ceremonies will vary greatly depending on the folks involved, generally speaking, a collaring ceremony is a symbolic gathering to celebrate and honor a commitment between partners within a BDSM or kink community. Dominant: Talmudic law requires that any legal contract or act of acquisition be concluded through an act of kinyan.

I will [insert vows here]. We had a discussion of how…. Genesis An Angel of the Lord found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, the spring on the road to Shur, and said, "Hagar, slave of Sarai, where have you come from and where are you going? And of course the gender roles involved are completely fluid. For the acquisition of a person, the deal may be sealed by having the individual perform chazakah — an act of service for their new master.

Thanks for this information! Related Post How to find a venue for your polyamorous wedding Choosing a wedding venue can be complicated.

What is a collaring ceremony?

Costs, location, size, catering rules What if you also need to make sure that your venue is poly-friendly? Indeed, consensual ownership is the whole point of a collaring ceremony!

Do you accept this promise? Exodus "But if the slave declares 'I love my master, and my wife and children: I do not wish to go free' his master shall take him before G-d. He shall be brought to the door or the doorpost, and his master shall pierce his ear with an awl; and he shall then remain his slave for life.

I'm chuckling because my partner said exactly what you did, but it was too late to edit the comment.

Collaring ceremonies are as unique as the individuals

And truth be told after reading it I was so lost about what was happeneing until you left this comment and now I understand and I wanted to thank you for that. Like a ring in a traditional wedding, the collar acts as a physical representation of the emotional, physical, and spiritual bond between a Dominant and their submissive partner or partners. In return I ask that you [insert requests here] Do you accept my collar?

However, using a collar to symbolize this unique bond is rife with tones of ownership. It's hard to applaud and type at the same time but I'm giving it my best shot. Usually there's not an equal distribution e. Does it only seem "incredibly disgusting" if it's a man collaring a woman? I am asking bdsm collaring ceremony to commit yourself to me and make me one of the highest priorities in your life, but your children and your marriage must always come first.

Collaring ceremonies aren't necessarily just a couple — they can include multiple partners who have chosen to commit to a polyamorous relationship. This seems occur most often in certain religious sects and although I'm sure it's possible for polygamy to happen the other way around one woman, multiple husbands I think that it must be pretty rare.

Where else in the land of wedding blogs do you see the BDSM ceremonies?

A polygamist the word means 'many wives' marries more than one person. The symbols and structure of a collaring ceremony can resemble a wedding because they often include jewelry and vows — but instead of a ring being slid onto fingers as a symbol the commitment, in a collaring ceremony, folks will sometimes place a collar around the neck of submissive.

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Many poly folk do have a legal spouse and also have other partners, but there is only one legal spouse. There is definitely a lot of thought in it, and it's really neat to see a post like this! This is sort of a collaring ceremony as a wedding. Let us now seal this contract. Second, thank you for posting this comment.

I didn't even know that there was something other than polygamy, but reading the BDSM I was interested, lo and behold I learned somethign new today! This is one of those posts that just makes me all warm and fuzzy slash hot and bothered about OBB. Yeah, I was SO stoked when I saw this. And polyandry is not common, though some cultures in Tibet and Nepal still practice it regularly.

Bdsm collaring ceremony I think "consensual ownership" is not the idea that comes across TO YOU when you see references to collaring ceremonies. I just wanted to add that when a woman has more than one husband or male partner, it is called polyandry. When it's consensual, it's not disgusting. Well, here's a collaring ceremony script that combines both! Dominant: Today I offer you a collar and with it my love. So, this is the draft for my vanillapolyamorouscollaring ceremony…. Doesn't anyone find the idea of publicly "collaring" a woman incredibly disgusting?

Ecclesiastes Two are better than one; because they have good reward for their labour. Thank you for the insight, I was very confused with all of it.

Our collaring ceremony

It will also be a polyamorous focused ceremony with our spouses giving us away — in a manner of speaking. The submissive s may identify as male, female, or none of the above! Bdsm collaring ceremony I am not in a polyamorous relationship, I do feel that people should be allowed to express all the love they feel inside. You can't hear me, but I'm applauding as I type this. Consensual ownership is not the idea that comes across when one member male or female is wearing the collar and the other holds the key. Those planning the ceremonies can the ceremony to be whatever works best for them!

Do you accept these terms? Not to mention the fact that it objectifies the collared. Each of us have families of our own and, as we intertwine our lives, so too do we intertwine theirs. You're entitled to your opinion, but please be respectful and conscious of others' rights to make their own choices and use the rituals which resonate with them.

It's absolutely wonderful to see so much love and open-mindedness.